Start with safety and connection
Move anything dangerous away and stay close enough to keep your child safe. Try a steady, short sentence: You wanted another turn. It is hard to stop. You do not need to explain the whole situation while your child is overwhelmed.
Keep the boundary small and clear
Name the action you can allow: You can be upset. I will help keep us safe. Offer a familiar comfort if your child welcomes it. Some children want a cuddle; others need a little space with you nearby.
Practice after the storm
When everyone is settled, use a toy to rehearse what comes next: Bear is sad that playtime is over. Bear can hold Bunny while we put the toys away. Keep the practice brief and playful.
Make room for your feelings, too
Take one slow breath and lower your shoulders. If another trusted adult is available, ask for a hand. If episodes feel unmanageable, include injury, or worry you, speak with your child’s clinician about support tailored to your family.
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